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Love moves the world
and hate stagnates it. It is all to easy to look out of the window and
complain about how much hate is dominating our lives today. But then,
how much love do we spread in our lives? In the present stressful
existence, we have forgotten how to love each other. Frustration,
stress, anger, impatience, intolerance, reign supreme. And as a result
we have children growing in an environment that is minus love and peace.
Love is the strongest emotion that brings happiness into ones lives. For
us to nurture our children into becoming a good human beings we must
inculcate in them the emotion called Love. And what is love? It maybe
defined as affection, devotion, fondness, admiration, compassion,
attachment, dedication, etc. When we learn to live by these emotions
then we do away with all the negatives that cause our destruction.
We can bring into our children the emotion of love only when we create
for ourselves a loving environment. As parents we firstly have to avoid
bringing our bedroom fights into the drawing room. We have to have
patience and tolerance and accept each other for each or our plusses and
minuses. When we accept each other, then only can we teach our children
the same.
Children growing up in a home where there is no love, grow into being
insecure individuals. They are constantly disturbed by what happens
between their parents. The constant fights and arguments instill in them
fear and they do not trust the outside world. In fact these children
seek attention from all over the place. They are always striving to be
their best only out of insecurity. And this is a negative aspect,
because at some point out of frustration they just want to stop short of
everything and give up. A child not nurtured in love and affection grows
into being a depressed emotional wreck who finds it difficult to adjust
in society.
Remember, your childs well being, whether it is emotional, physical,
psychological, mental or otherwise, depends on the environment you bring
up your child in. If it is a loving one, then you are bringing up an
adjusting human being. A terrorist after all is not born into a home of
love and affection, but one shrouded by intense hate. Category
authored by Karishma Bajaj. Copyright
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